ALL U WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT TRUE FRIENSHIP

Hiya again!!!

Well to begin with thers nothing much to write today as nothing really exciting has been happening these days…I, these days..Well..am trying to start studying for an aakash test I have on the 31st Jan…but besides dat…really looking fwd to the farewell and stuff…though I know its just going to be a 2 hr affair and we ll have nothing much to do besides commenting on others dresses etc…but NEWAYS …I T SURE IS GOIN TO FUN!
Well now that school is almost over for us.. I can’t help recalling my life in this school…from VI to XII.
Each year has been a learning experience…there have been ups and downs…but 1 thing I truly cherish and value are my friends…dps has given me the most wonderful friends..And I am even more happier with the fact that I have been able to maintain my friendships with them through these years…especially with my close friends…
Though there have been fights where I hv lost some ppl who were kind of friends…but I had nevr really considered them to be v close to me…. so I never really made an effort to solve disputes with them. To put it in mere words///I DINT PARTICULARLY CARE!!!!!!!!!

I am that kind of a person who is really choosy in categorising ppl as my friends …but once I make a friend..It’s always been a long lasting association…infact thankfully I haven’t lost ne of my good friends till now.

I personally feel that GOOD FRIENDS are an ABSOLUTE MUST IN ever1s life and 1(at least me) really cannot do without them coz u always need some1 to not only spend good time together but also some 1 who can help u pull through life’s inevitable downs and moments when u r confused of making the rt decision,

Though u will always find me talking to some person or the other in school…or maybe going for movies with different people…but there are VERY FEW who I can actually consider as my good friends…infact maybe just 2 or 3.

These 2-3 ppl are the ones I can always count on …though associations with them haven’t always been hassle and fight free…but somehow all issues end up getting solved…

XII has been more or less a wonderful experience coz I managed to get along with every1 and those who I dint get along with-- I cared the least abt them…so overall r class did lotsa masti and stuff..ans will always be remembered.

I know lots of ppl who fancy themselves having lots of acquaintances…. who spend a lot of time impressing others…and feel hipper and “ cooler” on knowing more ppl…but I am that kind of a person who values good friends more than mere acquaintances. So u will NEVER find me desperate to know more ppl …(however POPULAR he or she is) or wasting my time trying to convince ppl to like me, just coz of the fact that JUST KNOWING and talking TO THAT PERSON makes u known and in either words…puts u on the map. Though I need ppl ard me to have fun and talk to as I am not really an introvert …but having at least 1 or 2 good friends IS AN absolute must in our lives…

Though I truly believe that intercation with ppl is v. v. imp for passing ur time and exploring the fun part of life..like movies, picnics, teasing each other abt their crushes etc as they r VERY IMP for a person to develop normally and have good social bonding but I also feel that at the end of the day…u always cherish those wonderful MOMENTS U spent with your friend or gf or bf…rather than shallow moments with a group of ppl who though “ put u on the map” but do not really have care to help u through UR rough weather

A true friend is the one who supports u in lifes ups and downs, who knows the inside of u and on whom u can always shout at to take out ur anger and frustration…and MOST IMPORTANTLY…a true friend is the one who respects u and ur decisions and who cherishes ur association with him.

So u may say that I consider a person as my friend if and only if he/she fulfils the above conds…and well,,..the rest ARE just TIMEPASS man!!!!

So now I pen down here as I gotta study now but I would like to give 1 advise some ppl is to value their good friends …however “ geeky” or “ uncool” he/she maybe coz a nice friend will always and always be there for you…. ppl shud stop trying to impress others or trying to change the impression they have of u coz if they don’t like u…WHO CARES?????
And also cherish ur good friends and stop ignoring them to literally running after the whole world….spend time with ppl who care abt u and with whom u can be completely urself..rather than camouflaging urselves to suit their likes and dislikes coz in the whole process u may end up a loser urself by losing ur own identity in the scores of “ acquaintances” u have.

SO Today I have brought out a very imp part of my lifes philosophy…infect a v imp one…SO TELL ME HOW U FEEL ABT IT. Both appreciations and criticisms are invited.

HAVE A “FRIEND- FILLED”LIFE…
TOODLES!!!